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But hey, you want hard truths, I’ll give ’em to you.And here’s a hard truth for you: most of the issues you’re complaining about aren’t things something that are happening to you.Women, on the other hand are incredibly vocal and supportive of their friends, even strangers, in no small part because they don’t have the specter of “fag” looming over their heads.So you’re left without validation, without reassurance or comfort; your guy friends can’t provide it because guys are uncomfortable with expressing emotion or appreciation and women can’t provide it because guys freak out at them when they do. The odds that the chub you still have on your face will melt away as you hit your 20s is rather astoundingly high, especially with your height and current weight. Hell, even after my Long Dark Night of the Soul, my Batman moment when I fell into the PUA scene, didn’t immediately fix things for me.Men are supposed to be the ones who make the advances and who take the lead when wooing women.Women are supposed to be passive and receptive, not to act but to be acted that you were actually attractive, would you believe her?I knew this with the certainty of someone who has hopped in the TARDIS and went forward in time to verify it personally. I may have sworn up and down that I could see every step of the next five years with perfect clarity, but I was wrong. (But, listen chief, as long as you’re telling the future, could you look up the lottery tickets? But whether you’re hanging out with the Incels or just asshole-infested sections of Reddit, the best thing you can do right now is log the hell out of them.Nobody claimed that billion dollar Powerball yet and I’m kind of hoping they’re going to roll it back into the prize pool.) Now, you’re convinced that you’re going to be a virgin by 25. We’ll start by suggesting that you dial back the histrionics. I realize that it can feel like you’re facing harsh truths and peeling the pleasing lies, but that’s not what you’re actually doing.
I’ll completely give up searching “love” and I’ll just join some satanic cult and listen to suicidal songs or something.
I got only a couple of matches from average-ugly girls.
The problem is that I’m an useless ugly piece of shit with standards. I don’t care the least about a girl’s personality unless she looks as good as a Korean model.
All my friends have had girlfriends and I’m the only one who, whenever people talk about relationships and girls get “You don’t know anything about this” , “just don’t say anything, you’re still a virgin wtf dude” and so on. The more I try to look good, the uglier I realise I become.
When I try becoming good at something, I always fail.
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Doc, I used to believe that beauty is subjective and different people like different things. No girls would ever look at me, and none ever told me I’m good looking, cute etc.