Communicating forgiveness in friendships and dating relationships
For more on this, see the excellent book Sex and the Supremacy of Christ, edited by John Piper.
Although in a dating relationship you will be singling out one man, and he, one woman, for special, focused attention, you should not be doing anything with each other you would not do with your own biological brother or sister.
For my part, I would not get close to guys who are already attached because I do not want their girlfriends to get the wrong idea and do not want them to feel uncomfortable. Are there boundaries that should be drawn with opposite-sex friends once you’re attached?
Ephesians 5:3 is all-encompassing, But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.
” Jealously and envy tempt us all and they are sinful reasons for setting up boundaries.
Regarding the practicalities of your question, what do biblical friendship boundaries in dating looking like?
You have not said if you or your boyfriend are Christians.
Are you trusting in Christ alone for the forgiveness of your sins? If so, and if this is also true for your boyfriend, then these rules of conduct apply to both of you in any new friendships you form. They also apply to friendships you already had when you started dating. These verses provide the standard for how you are to relate Until and unless you are married, you are a brother and sister in Christ.